{"id":1151,"date":"2013-03-12T13:27:22","date_gmt":"2013-03-12T18:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.familydill.com\/wordpress\/?p=1151"},"modified":"2013-03-16T19:49:41","modified_gmt":"2013-03-17T00:49:41","slug":"the-secret-has-been-revealed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.familydill.com\/wordpress\/2013\/03\/12\/the-secret-has-been-revealed\/","title":{"rendered":"The Secret has Been Revealed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well we now know where we are serving. I say we because this really is a family call.  I was recently asked how did I wish to participate in this call. I was surprised that some spouses don&#8217;t partake in their spouses call. <\/p>\n<p>Odd? Maybe not. Why do you go to church? Why do you get involved or not get involved? It was pointed out to me, that once Doug is a pastor, who then is my pastor? While Doug can speak about the theology, he can&#8217;t guide me through a confession. So what will I do? I&#8217;m not sure how to find a pastor, and not attend their service. Besides what does that say about me, to not be able to worship in my husbands church?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure God will guide me in this journey. I will meet people along this path, that will be supportive of me and continue to help me with my faith. I also hope to become part of a spouses group so to speak, where I can express my concerns, fears and feelings. Maybe even attend conferences designed for pastoral spouses.<\/p>\n<p>Getting back to my statement about this being a family call, is really true. How can Doug serve in a church without family support. He may not be able to share things, but he does need to know there is always someone in his corner or got his back.  Pastors need people who know him, understands him and allows him to be his self, and not what people think a pastor should be. <\/p>\n<p>Am I nervous? Hell yes! But I have God, I have my family and my friends. So I know you&#8217;re saying&#8230;get to the location. Well I&#8217;m happy to say our assignment is in Platteville WI. At First English Lutheran Church. Thereby allowing for us to remain on campus, Becky to graduate from Dubuque Senior, and Travis and I to remain employed. After Easter watch for pictures, my goal is to drive by there on my way to or from Madison.<\/p>\n<p>We all believe this will be a great location for us. We are excited and know God will be with us on this journey.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well we now know where we are serving. I say we because this really is a family call. I was recently asked how did I wish to participate in this call. I was surprised that some spouses don&#8217;t partake in &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.familydill.com\/wordpress\/2013\/03\/12\/the-secret-has-been-revealed\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1151","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faith"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2m8F1-iz","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1729,"url":"https:\/\/www.familydill.com\/wordpress\/2016\/02\/12\/rubber-gloves-and-a-sponge\/","url_meta":{"origin":1151,"position":0},"title":"Rubber Gloves and a Sponge","author":"Kris Dill","date":"February 12, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Rubber Gloves and a Sponge I had the opportunity to attend a clergy spouses retreat. 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